When does a person become a parent?
When their first baby is born?
When they see two lines on a stick?
I think the exact moment is different for every parent, but for many people it happens as soon as they decide to have children.
That’s the problem with infertility. It’s undoubtedly one of the worst feelings in the world to lose a child — but when you’re a parent in your mind for years before ever holding your child in your arms, it’s an unseen, inward grief that I think very few people truly understand.